"major sucking up" ... "to her"
(Pretty Women)
Richard Gere
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"250 000 USD" = diamonds necklace
=> how much for real soft-skills services or real soft skills supervision ?
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duminică, 28 decembrie 2008
"Don't talk back to Darth Vadar"
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Toddler retells 'Star Wars'
'Don't talk back to Darth Vadar'
Toddler retells 'Star Wars'
Hear a three-year-old girl's funny take on "Star Wars IV." » Best videos of '08
Little kid sings 'Hey Jude'
See boy's wicked dance moves
Alpacas do 'Imperial March'
http://video.yahoo.com/watch/2253654/7101180
Star Wars Explained by a 3-year-old !
Kids say the darnedest things ! I bet her nerd dad must be so proud !
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Toddler retells 'Star Wars'
'Don't talk back to Darth Vadar'
Toddler retells 'Star Wars'
Hear a three-year-old girl's funny take on "Star Wars IV." » Best videos of '08
Little kid sings 'Hey Jude'
See boy's wicked dance moves
Alpacas do 'Imperial March'
http://video.yahoo.com/watch/2253654/7101180
Star Wars Explained by a 3-year-old !
Kids say the darnedest things ! I bet her nerd dad must be so proud !
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marți, 7 octombrie 2008
Aikido as a way of comunication
Carnegie
Cungi
Today, a friend ("lawyer") had an situation at his propriety with a neighbour. He decided to take the matter on his own hands and wanted to go to persuade the neighbour, directly. He knew that they had taugh times before. So I suggested that he should write an official letter instead, and he wanted to mail it. ... At the end I asked: Are u sure that ur problem is caused by the neighbour ? Have u checked ? ... After some debate, he agreed to take my advices ... It had proved that was an mistake.
The conclusions:
* If we act upon impresions, experiences, expectations we may be the one starting conflicts.
* Is better to think the solution, rather than react
* solve conflicts in the proper manner (formal, use the authorities), instead of direct approach
He was angry, believed that the neighbour will act unfavorably, and perhaps that can be persuaded through verbal pressure.
All that will be easy to "read" by the neighbour, so there is way could have the opposite effect than decided.
Being confident in the result and in his arguments, and not emotional tied to the neighbour, through the letter he could do that better. Also an written argument, with suport in the law, that could be reffered to third parties at the choice of the neighbour, could acted in favour of my friend.
Also could let the common sense, the fear, or the reason fill the mind of the neighbour. (I'm tempted to bet that my friend will disagree on two of them :p :)) )
Cungi
Today, a friend ("lawyer") had an situation at his propriety with a neighbour. He decided to take the matter on his own hands and wanted to go to persuade the neighbour, directly. He knew that they had taugh times before. So I suggested that he should write an official letter instead, and he wanted to mail it. ... At the end I asked: Are u sure that ur problem is caused by the neighbour ? Have u checked ? ... After some debate, he agreed to take my advices ... It had proved that was an mistake.
The conclusions:
* If we act upon impresions, experiences, expectations we may be the one starting conflicts.
* Is better to think the solution, rather than react
* solve conflicts in the proper manner (formal, use the authorities), instead of direct approach
He was angry, believed that the neighbour will act unfavorably, and perhaps that can be persuaded through verbal pressure.
All that will be easy to "read" by the neighbour, so there is way could have the opposite effect than decided.
Being confident in the result and in his arguments, and not emotional tied to the neighbour, through the letter he could do that better. Also an written argument, with suport in the law, that could be reffered to third parties at the choice of the neighbour, could acted in favour of my friend.
Also could let the common sense, the fear, or the reason fill the mind of the neighbour. (I'm tempted to bet that my friend will disagree on two of them :p :)) )
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